The girl am dating said she had better partners before me.
I ( 26m) was having lunch at my place with my girlfriend of 2 months (22f) and out of nowhere she asked if she was the best in bed that I’ve ever had.
The question took me by surprise, i wasn’t sure what to answer especially that we hadn’t been intimate long enough for me to determine anything, so i went for the safe answer and said yes.
She looked at me weirdly then laughed , when i asked her why is she laughing , she said that am not gonna like her answer and proceeded to tell me that an ONS was better in bed than me, even said that she only had oral with him and it was so much better than all things we’ve done together in bed, she answered a question i didnt ask.
Its not a nice thing to say ,I feel now so turned off by this , and lost all of my attraction to her , even tho i have a high libido, i am considering break up but at the same time not sure if i should talk to her about it or just end it all?
Netizens’ comments
- Wtf, break up. Only 2 months in and she’s waving a red flag under your nose. She specifically asked you that question so that she could say something cruel to you. Don’t let anyone treat you that way. I would never ever tell my man that someone was better than him in bed even if it were true.
If she wanted you to improve on something in the bedroom there are much nicer ways to go about it. - Don’t take it as fact either, OP. Not only is everyone different, she intentionally took the conversation there. This was a planned insult, and by what you’ve described she was delighted to say it.
If I were you I’d literally just call/text her, tell her to enjoy her ONS’, and remove her from your life. 2 months? You owe her nothing, and less than nothing after saying some stupid shit like that. - Who would ever say this to someone they’re dating?! Pure evil.
- That’s messed up. She needs to know how hurtful that statement is. It sounds like she just doesn’t care.
Personally, I’d suggest that she is more than welcome to date the ONS and be done with her. Life is too short to deal with that kind of bull crap