Confused
Hi guys, need some advice here. So I consider myself as straight. However I always had a hard time with girls and it seems to be difficult to find a gf, often being friendzone.
I have this gay friend whom I confided in and he has always offered ‘to satisfy me’, although I’ve rejected numerous times as I don’t like the idea.
However, recently after being turned down by a crush I was feeling down and when my gay friend offered a bj, I accepted it to feel better.
However, I declined to touch him back as ‘I was not comfortable with touching another guy’. Now I’m confused because I have the urge to let him satisfy my needs but I still did not feel comfortable with touching him back or have any sexual desires about guys.
Am I considered bi or confused?
Netizens’ comments
- Even I am confused reading this. Means you are confused, too.
- Why you take advantage of your gay friend
- Ya. Must understand the reasons why you kena friend zone by girls. Most likely you bo money
- Just a temporary setback in life “confused”. Stop it and stop staying in touch. Move on with life – just be sociable, there are many gals out there.
- Maybe just desperate and he happened to meet your needs. I pity that friend of yours for being used like this, but hey.. his choice.. I just feel pity for both of you.
- You are considered “want to eat people, but don’t want to let people eat” type. Maybe thats why you don’t get any girls. Touch the guy back la. Don’t selfish.
- gays or not they are also just human beings. they can win your heart by pleasing your needs and they can also dump u after pleasing your needs. Think about it.
- If I were you, I think I would rather go Geylang to visit some prostitute. If she got pregnant then you marry her loh.