My gf woke me up from my sleep by blowing me… and I kinda like it
My (25M) girlfriend (24F) and I have been together for 3 years and we moved in together about a year ago. We lost our virginities to each other and overall our life has been great.
For the past few weeks I’ve been coming home later than usual due to a project we’ve been working on in my banking firm.
My girlfriend expressed how she didn’t like how we had less time for intimacy so she’s been a little quieter than usual.
Yesterday I felt something weird when I woke up and I could feel her under the covers giving me a b j. A large part of me felt very uncomfortable in the moment because she’s never done that without my consent so I told her to stop and I left for work right after without talking to her.
She’s apologized countless times since then saying that she just wanted some intimacy with me because it’s been lacking lately, so I understood it.
But I don’t know how to approach her saying that I think I kind of liked it. I think I was uncomfortable in the moment because it had never happened before, but I think I would enjoy it again, but I still don’t appreciate how she overstepped her boundaries without telling me.
How should I approach the situation?
Netizens’ comments
- Just tell her she caught you off guard. But now that you’ve had a minute to think about it, you’re pretty sure you like it. And you’d love for her to do it again.
- Pretty simple. Just say “I reacted negatively because I was confused but the more I think about, the more I like the idea”. Just discuss it. Let her know that there should have been a discussion about this type of thing before hand and there should be no surprise in the future without consent.
- Kinda? Can’t think of a better way to wake up and tackle the day.