A girl shared how she was outcasted by her female friends, who stopped calling her to hang out with them, while her guy friends will go out of their way to include her.
Here is the story
What do you do if the girls in your clique outcast you but the guys don’t?
Recently, I realized that the girls in my clique have been excluding me from their girls’ night outs (seen from their instastories and it’s not because of SDM as there are only 4 of us) and they probably have a separate group chat without me as I don’t see them discussing about those outings in the main group chat.
On the other hand, when the guys arrange our outing they will always include me and make sure that I can make it, even as far as rescheduling the outing to a new date just so that I can attend.
This vast difference in treatment is really putting me in a dilemma, on one hand, I would want to leave the clique as the girls don’t seem to welcome me anymore but on the other hand, I think it is stupid of me to give up my guy friends just because the girls don’t like me?
I’m also not the type that would confront others and I cry when I get too angry and overwhelmed (LOL shucks to be me ); ) so I don’t think I’ll ever confront the girls. Should I just leave the clique? Haih, thanks for reading.
Netizens’ comments
Just act cool and blur. If they don’t want to include you so be it. Continue to hang out with the guys. They may just be sore that you get to hang out with the guys. Too bad for them.