If you’re a people pleaser, you’re a loser for life.
I said what I said.
Seriously, learn to say no. Learn to be a lil selfish. Learn to understand that you deserve happiness and satisfaction from your own choice for yourself regardless of other people’s feelings about it. It’s such a huge ass turn off seeing someone trying to make everyone happy and walking on eggshells so not upset them and cause trouble.
eF I care sia about your so called “trauma” that made you this way. Get the f over it. Stop letting other people take control over your life. Start getting your shit together la sia. Take the risk, cause trouble, make them upset, who effing cares.
If you still choose to be a people pleaser, then you’re nothing but a effing loser.
Grow the ef up.
Here are what netizens think:
- Go for win-win lah, don’t have to cause trouble all the time. Know when to take the peaceful route out.
- Some people are empaths. They feel a natural sense of compassion for others. Just because you can’t feel that much dosen’t mean others are a fool. Feeling emotions is a sense of strength not weakness. Weak people run away from that because it scares them. They think they’ll get hurt and not be able to deal with the pain. That’s not strength to me. Could just as easily tell you to grow the hell up too and be vulnerable cos that’s the only authentic way to live life ?
- Wow, so strong! I like… stay strong ok. Promise, don’t ever give in no matter what, ok?
- You need therapy.
- Also, if you choose to be a person who acts like a jerk, I would also dare say, you’re a loser. I guess it’s a balance. Sometimes please, sometimes be selfish. Everytime be considerate and kind.