Please don’t judge me for liking someone else husband… I am sorry truly.
I am a f 20+ and the guy i like is 40+. I know the age gap damn… but i really do like him.
For someone who don’t really want to be in a relationship, meeting him makes me wants to have my own family but he has his own family already.
I didn’t know who to share it with because it has been in my mind for quite awhile. I am scared i know its wrong, that is why i even left the job just to stay away from from him. But leaving the job doesn’t help because i still think about him all the time. I don’t know maybe this is the first time i like someone, that is why i can’t forget him but he is married and I don’t want to be ‘that’ person.
What am I supposed to do? Really i tried everything like finding every flaw he had just to make me hate him, i left my job just to avoid seeing him (we work in the same department), i keep reminding myself that he is married with children. I know how it feels having ur family ruined by a third party. It happened to my mom. I don’t want to be like that for his wife. The irony ah i use to tell everyone i hate people who ruin other peoples relationships but look at me now. Btw he doesn’t know… or maybe he know cause i was being flirty with him before i knew he was married… but yeah. Help me. I am so tired.
Here are what netizens think:
- Work on your own growth, you’ll not think about him eventually.
- He can be ur father already.
- Go sugarbook and find other 40+ men