My ex fiancee left me a week ago, and she already wants to move in with her new boyfriend.
I’m just hurt. I’m still in close contact with her mom, her mom has been there for me through our entire break up. We both had no idea she was going to leave me, it was like a bomb.
One of my friends works at the same place she does, and noticed that she and another guy were talking and chatting it up consistently.
I put it aside, thinking oh maybe they’re just friends. I asked her about it, she said not to worry about it they’re just friends.
She kept acting like everything was fine, came to see me, kissing, hugging, all the normal things a couple would do. (She always knew how to get my motor running by calling me things).
One day after work she came over to say hi, acted like everything was great. Like she was happy and everything. I told her I never wanted to lose her, I loved her more than anything. “You won’t ever lose me. I promise.”
She got back home to her parents house (she and her kids were kicked out of her apartment beforehand…like a month beforehand.)
We tried but failed to get a place together, next thing I know, she says she wants a break.
“What the f.” I think to myself…I told her no. “You did this once already in our relationship, we’re going to work on this.”
“I don’t want to. I need a break. You’re too down lately.” Of course I am, I’m trying to get us a place to live together, it’s hard and I’m a little bit sad at this point.
She left me. Then I found out from my friend she was caught making out with the guy she told me not to worry about at work. Turns out, this has been going on for a lot longer than a week…
I broke down. It’s so hard to believe that she would do that to me. It still hurts.
Now her mom is telling me she’s trying to move in with the new guy. So obviously, I meant nothing to her. But she meant everything to me, and it’s so hard living without her…