I installed a camera in the living room and caught my husband making out with the babysitter.
I have been having suspicions for almost 4 months since I hired this part-timer young babysitter for my 3-year-old daughter. I’m a nurse working full time while he works three nights a week and comes home to sleep during the day.
I felt I was going crazy because something was off and he refused to ease my mind and answer questions I had – so I put a camera in the living room and saw nothing till day 4 when he and the babysitter were making out on the couch behind my daughter’s back while she was watching tv. I felt like my entire world came crashing to the ground. I felt all kinds of negative feelings including guilt even though I just wanted to keep my job when he complained about me pushing him to the side.
He started crying when confronted, tried to get me to listen but I took my daughter and went to stay with mom. It’s been a whole month now. The babysitter is gone and he’s still crying about his slip up, even went as far as say the babysitter was the one initiating.
I feel like I’m done with him after this. He managed to make me feel guilty for not dressing up or giving him enough attention now I do strongly believe I bear part of the blame in what happened.
I feel disgusted and my mind and heart keep racing not knowing how to deal with all of this. he’s begging for a second chance and his family are defending him against me.
Here are what netizens think:
- He’s blaming the wife too. And he’s got her believing both. I hope she turns him in via video and kicks him out. He’s just a drain on her life anyway. In all shapes and forms.
- It is not your fault. Shifting the blame is the cheater’s way to muddy the water and make you doubt what you know to be the truth. That goes hand-in-hand with blaming the babysitter – she initiated it – riiight. Read your own words: I feel like I’m done with him after this. I think that is your gut. Trust your gut.