I get bored halfway in and can never finish.
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I, 19 F, never thought I would be sharing something so personal with a community of strangers on the internet.
Every night, when I try to get myself off, it’ll start off really good. But once I finally build momentum, I slowly start to lose interest and everything feels so dull, so I eventually give up out of defeat and go to bed.
I don’t get it. I’ve tried thousands of videos, different techniques, and tried every single tip I’ve read online. I’ve never done it. I don’t have any toys, and I use my hand. (In all honesty, I’m afraid to buy one for myself. Ladies, Is it worth it?)
I’ve tried googling this, but I can’t seem to find anyone with the same problem. What should I do??
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Netizens’ comments
- The thing is that this is the kind of problem that doesn’t have a magical “solution”. Probably there isn’t something that changes everything into what you desire (what could be that you finish much quicker or that you don’t get distracted).
And the other thing is probably that from the moment on that you think “oh my god this is nice, but I’ll get distracted in a few minutes” you’re distracted and it might be over.
What you can do? Don’t look out for a solution, just work on stuff or figure out things that slightly improve the situation.
Can you do anything to keep your concentration a bit longer? Can you do anything that makes it even feel nicer? Probably small things, but that might help and get you closer.
Maybe the time of the day isn’t the best. Maybe that you’re already in bed. Maybe your distracted by adult videos. Maybe you just have a wandering mind. Maybe you should use two hands. Maybe whatever… Anything that makes a slight improvement is an improvement.
I’m easily distracted too and can loose interest in a heartbeat. When I’m in that mindset, I just stop for a bit and continue a bit later.
I know that when i’m easily distracted while I’m getting off, I’ll probably as easily distracted when doing something else and I’ll just go back to it after a bit.
Toys are no wonder solution eather. I mean, it can make me get off slightly faster. It can be or feel a little bit more intense.
But it can also be something that distracts me (because it makes noise, there are too many buttons, the ideal lube situation could be with slightly more or less lube, … But they are fun, it adds to the excitement and every girl should have a couple of them.