Does anyone feel that friendships forged nowadays are just touch-and-go?
As per the title. All the friends that I’ve made seem to be acquaintances more than friends, and it’s so hard to have a genuine connection.
Lessons are still online for me, and even though I’ve joined a CCA, we mainly just talk there and then during the activity, which just ends there.
Even online, mainly joined interest groups and we all mainly go out as a group, which I appreciate as a way to make friends in general, but not a way to forge a genuine connection with someone.
On a side note, does anyone feel that it’s very hard to ask your friends out at times? I’m in my mid-20s, and some of my friends are working, some studying.
I’ve asked them once, twice, and eventually stop asking them cuz I don’t wanna bug them, then there will be no meetup because the other party doesn’t take the initiative.
They’re usually busy or the meetup is just postponed indefinitely. Is this normal? I can text a friend for 1-2 months often and not meet.
Feeling dejected as I feel I have friends here and there, yet somehow I still feel lonely.
I know I’m sounding negative, so hopefully someone will be able to change my perspective of looking at things?