Married woman wants to go on a trip with me
A woman whom I’m into has expressed interest in going out with me. She brought up the topic of going on a long-distance trip together.
Now obviously since I really like her, I really want to go too. The big issue here is that she is still married. She did mention multiple times that she is no longer in love with her husband, and is only with him for the sake of her kids and also due to responsibility.
They have had problems throughout their marriage, but she did say that her husband still treats her well.
She and I have known each other for a very long time, but we rarely got the chance to meet in person. We sometimes confide in each other and have very long intimate phone conversations late at night.
I’m not sure what to do. Should I do what I want and go with her, or try to be rational and refrain myself?
Netizens’ comments
- Does her husband know? If she’s spoken to him and they’ve mutually decided to open their marriage that’s all daisies but if this is some sneaking behind his back bullshit, can you put yourself in her husband’s shoes? Broken marriage or not deceit is still deceit.
- Well that depends on you. Let me ask do you want to be half responsible for breaking up a family and marriage?
- That sounds like a terrible idea. I wouldn’t want to cause someone’s marriage to end or be the other guy with a married woman.
- As an ex husband (very recent) who’s wife apparently cheated on him for two years with a co worker.
I WAS the husband who treated her well. Helped her move into her new house and everything. I took care of EVERYTHING during our divorce. Alle the paperwork you can imagine.
I did everything for her. Only to find out she already had someone else for almost two years!
FFS she already had officially informed her manager and HR of their relationship before I found out. Because I had to find out for myself.
It broke our family. The kids hate her new boyfriend. And her. For lying to us and not being honest and filing for divorce earlier. She lied and lied for years. To everyone.
I don’t want to see my ex wife ever again. Ever. Not at birthdays, Xmas, graduations.. you name it. If she’s there, I’m not.
She should have come clean on day one instead of starting a new relationship during our marriage. It’s not just about the husband, it’s also about the kids who’s live you will definitely impact.
So if you want to be the reason for a family to break… go for it. But it’s not just about her. It’s about the husband and kids too. And I would not wish this upon anyone.