I’m a 28F and I’m still a virgin. It’s a long story why but basically I have never had a boyfriend before. I didn’t start dating till this year because I wasn’t ready for a long time.
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I know I’m late to the game but I’m scared that men will be turned off by me once they find out I’m a virgin.
I’m not waiting for marriage. I’m waiting until I’m in a relationship with someone, I can trust him, and I feel safe with him.
For context, I used to be really shy and introverted but I have really improved on my social skills and myself over the years.
I am more outgoing, social and fun to be around I think. I also think I’m a great time in my life to meet someone and I feel like my best years are ahead of me.
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Netizens’ comments
- Different strokes for different folks. Not everyone will mind, others will. I just say be weary of dudes who obsess over you being a virgin, telling you how you’re not like other girls or how you’re “wife material” for being one. They’ll also play the long game and bait you into a relationship if they’re desperate enough.
- If they’re good people they won’t mind, I think it’ll just depend on your personality and how you go about it.
- No. Any decent man would wait, and be honored to be your first. Especially because you specifically said you want to trust the person.
- I don’t think so. I’m 30 (and a guy) and a virgin. Lot of reasons why, lot of baggage I’m still unpacking, but, I hope no one everholds it against me.
- No men will be against you being a Virgin. But they’ll want to take it. Be selective on who you share that with. Make sure they make you feel comfortable and safe your first time.