My girlfriend and I had been together for four years when I finally decided to give her an ultimatum. I told her that I wanted her to stop listening to her friend who seemed to be constantly sabotaging our relationship. I know this sounds sexist, but it is a scientific fact that women always sabotage each other’s relationships through thoughtless gossip.
I had noticed for a while that my girlfriend had been receiving a lot of advice from her friend on how to act in our relationship. She had been trying to make her own decisions, but her friend was constantly pushing her towards certain actions, opinions, and decisions that she wouldn’t have normally made. This was having a negative effect on our relationship, and I was starting to feel that our trust and communication were being undermined.
I finally decided to address the issue directly with my girlfriend. I told her that I wanted her to stop listening to her friend who seemed to be constantly sabotaging our relationship. I explained to her that I felt her friend was trying to manipulate her, and that she should trust her own judgement and decision-making instead.
At first, my girlfriend was really upset and defensive about my ultimatum. She said that her friend had been her friend for much longer than we had been together, and that she had always been there for her. She said that she trusted her friend’s opinion and that her advice had always been helpful.
But I was firm in my ultimatum and I explained to her that I wanted her to think about the impact her friend was having on our relationship. I told her that while her friend’s advice may have been helpful in the past, it was now hurting our relationship and making it difficult for us to communicate and trust each other.
My girlfriend eventually realized that I was right and that her friend was actually sabotaging our relationship. She apologized for not seeing this sooner and agreed to my ultimatum. She also agreed to talk to her friend and explain to her why she was no longer going to be taking her advice.
In the end, my ultimatum was successful and our relationship has improved drastically since then. We are now closer than ever and more trusting of each other. I’m glad I was able to see the situation for what it was and take action to fix it.
My ultimatum to my girlfriend to stop listening to her friend who was sabotaging our relationship was not an easy decision, but it was the right one. It was necessary for us to move forward and build a healthier relationship. It’s true that women often sabotage each other’s relationships through thoughtless gossip, but it’s important to remember that it’s not always the case. In this situation, my girlfriend’s friend was actually having a negative effect on our relationship, and I’m glad I took action to address the issue.