my roommate is f-ing her bf while I’m sleeping
I don’t really know where to put this, but I woke up last night when my roommate and her bf came back to our dorm room at 4 am.
I tried going back to sleep, but I’m like 80% sure they started getting naughty with each other, and at that point, I was just angry that they were loud enough that I couldn’t go to sleep, so I left.
I’m not comfortable with my roommate f-ing while I’m asleep a few metres away. There is no divider, no desk, no anything, and I’m in perfect eye view.
I don’t like her boyfriend, I don’t want to hang out with her boyfriend, and I certainly don’t want to see him “going inside” my friend.
I spend 12 hours of the day outside of the dorm so they can have their alone time and privacy, and it makes me upset that I can’t sleep without them intruding.
I don’t care about how much they f each other, I just would really prefer that it wasn’t around me, and I don’t have another place to sleep.
I’m angry, but I kinda just want to know if this is warranted. Am I being prudish or unreasonable? I was going to have a conversation with my roommate about how uncomfortable that makes me (especially when I didn’t even know he was coming over), but I feel like I’m being mean. Let me know what y’all think.
Netizens’ comments
- Turn on the lights, grab a snack and sit on your bed eating while you offer feedback on both of their performances. They will likely stop.
- You need to tell your roommate that you made efforts to let them be alone. You don’t want to listen or watch them in that act. Knock that shit off or find a new roommate. Your reaction is completely normal.
- Just get up and tell them to shut the f up