How to do doggy if your bf is too big down there?
Hello everyone I have an amazing life with my boyfriend and we fulfill each other’s greatest desires but he really enjoys the doggy position and we do that but it is rather painful for me because of his large girthy member.
I love him and I love sleeping with him, but it hurts a lot. What doesn’t help is that he has quite a lot of stamina and it takes him a while to finish
My gynecologist said to try to stretch more often but while it did help with the pain, it doesn’t make it any more comfortable or pleasurable. Usually it just takes me out of the mood and I just hope he finishes as soon as possible.
Even oral is very uncomfortable for me and unsatisfying for him because I can barely take half of it.
I want to satisfy my bf but bc its so painful we dont do doggy as much as we do other positions is there any methods or tricks that I can use to make this position more enjoyable for myself?
Netizens’ comments
- For girth, lube is essential. Find one that’s compatible with the protection that you’re using. Also, before penetration, having him during foreplay try to get 2-3 fingers in you at a point where you are comfortable. This may mean that doggy is the grand finale, not the main event.
- I mean, there’s realistically not much you can do about it, a friend of mine has a condition where anything thicker than a finger hurts her, so even an average sized penis is painful, but she’s not willing to give up on it to avoid the pain, i wouldn’t really take this as some advice, i’d honestly just say to follow your doctors advice, and stretch more often to fit it well, and keep up with it over time
- Sadly, I don’t think there’s much you can do unless it involves toys. Remember though, it can stretch to about 14″ diameter though since it can push out an entire newborn baby.