Wife got really angry when I pulled out and finished on her back.
So for context we have been married for about 10 years. She has some infertility issues and has to take fertility medication whenever we are planning to have kids. With this being the case, I have always just finished inside of her without worrying about unwanted pregnancy.
This week she mentioned that she had some signs of natural fertility which is pretty rare but happens once in a great while. This popped into my head as we were doing the deed tonight so rather than run the risk of pregnancy I pulled out and finished on her back.
She immediately got very angry. She said it was disgusting and went straight into the bathroom to wipe off. She came out and asked if I was going to apologize for coming on her. I said I was sorry but didn’t understand what the issue was.
She said that she thinks it is disgusting and degrading and I might as well have just peed on her while I was at it and that it made her feel like garbage.
I told her that was not my intent to make her feel that way but that it did not seem like a big deal to me in the moment. I said that I know it is not something we usually have to worry about, but what did she think the pull out method entailed?
I mentioned that it kind of also hurt my feelings a bit too that she was acting so repulsed by me. I will say that she has always been pretty prude and borderline frigid at times but I was not expecting this reaction.
Anyway it did not go over well and I am now sleeping on the sofa wondering what in the world just happened.