So I recently moved to study overseas and recently found out my 16 year old sister did something that I’m pretty upset about. So my family had a party for me before I left and near the end I noticed that my Nintendo Switch and it’s games were gone.
I found it in my sister’s room and packed it and went to sleep to get ready to go to the airport. The flight and everything else went fine and while I was unpacking my stuff I noticed I couldn’t find my Nintendo Switch or any of its games. I was really confused as I distinctly remembered putting it in my suitcase. I called my Mom and she explained that my sister had taken the games and my Switch in the middle of the night and hid it so she could have them.
My Mom didn’t know until it was too late and took the game and her phone from her for a week as punishment. I am fuming. The Switch was given to me by a friend and all the games were either gifts or I paid for them and now my Mom thinks it’s completely ok to let my sister take something that is mine.
When I told her this she said I was being melodramatic and territorial and to let my sister have it. The next week my sister called me and was being a snotface about the whole thing saying stuff like “How does it feel to know you have to ask me to play games now? I’m going to sell it to buy vape”.
I told her that she is an entitled brat and told her “I’m not surprised you still don’t have a friend” My sister was shocked and hung up the phone. She has been having trouble making friends for a while now and told me I’m a jerk. I’ll admit I went too far but I don’t disagree with calling her out on doing that.
My sister has never done anything like this and my siblings and parents are telling me I’m a bad brother and telling me to apologize and let her keep it. I’m conflicted and need to know if I’m wrong because I feel bad and need to know if I’m the entitled brat.
My entire family isn’t letting me talk to her until I say it belongs to her.
So my parents recognized that she steal it but thinks that stealing is right for her just because she is under 18. I am really tempted to tell my mom that she is vaping.
Should I?