It was just a one night stand, but it happened last night.
We’ve had three months of insane fun, love, and security. That all ended tonight. She called me after I got off and told me what happened. That she couldn’t stop herself. That she wanted to but she couldn’t say stop. The man who did it initiated the S and she didn’t stop him.
I’ve initiated a three-day no contact period as I told her to do whatever with whomever as I gather my thoughts, and pray. This has happened so many times before, and I’m spent emotionally and I’m just numb. If she comes back, I don’t know what to do. To say.
Should I cut the cord on Friday and end it? Should I do it now? Should I just wait and gather myself and let her come back Friday? Should I start over?
Someone, please help.
Here are what netizens think:
- Cut the cord now. You said this has happened multiple times? It’s over.
- she’s cheating 3 months into the relationship. thats so early it’s ridiculous. if she can’t even be loyal in this short term of a period, she won’t be loyal for the rest of it
- You’ve had three months of getting to know each other and enjoying the new relationship high, basically. What you found out during that time is that while she’s fun to be around, she is neither loyal nor that into you. So now you decide whether that’s the kind of partner you are after. If so, by all means continue, but be fully aware of whom you’re choosing to commit to. Praying and not texting her for three days is obviously not going to change who she is and what she has to offer.
- it’s only been 3 months, staying with someone who cheated on you after 3 months is not worth it and you’re barely 21. her excuses are whole bunch of bs as well. she couldn’t stop herself? really?!??? just dump the girl.