I don’t even know where to start, I feel sick and horrible that I took this long to find out. I found out my brother in law cheated on my sister sometime in the first two years of their marriage and that she’s staying only for her kid and me to have some kind of family and support.
We lost both our parents during her marriage, mom just after her marriage and dad a year later. she has been married for 4 years now with a kid. I was borrowing her laptop when I found a document of what she has written over the years and I feel horrible. I knew she was not happy and I thought it was only a few petty fights but not that he cheated and that she was dealing with the crazy from her in-laws as well.
I didn’t take the loss of our parents well and I got into a messed up relationship that didn’t work out after which I buried myself in schoolwork.
My sister was my only support throughout all this time. She encouraged me and supported me. I am ashamed to say I was dealing with my own garbage issues which pale in comparison to what she was suffering so much on her own.
She has mentioned she just wants to leave and start over but has never spoken to me about it. As much as this scares me, I want to get them away from him and his family as soon as possible. I just graduated and I have a job now. How can I plan to help her leave him? Both financially and legally to leave him?
Here are what netizens think:
- Tell your sister to start calling lawyers. Maybe you can do it so her husband doesn’t find out.she needs legal advice and a plan to leave. She needs a lawyer. You don’t stay for the kid you leave for the kid.
- Well not sure of the exact circumstances. But. If your sister is in this situation and can’t ask for a divorce and leave?
- Collect evidence and lawyer up.