So I and my girlfriend haven’t been together long (3 months). She’s very needy all week and I’m okay with that you know 40 50 text messages three or four phone calls a day… but on the weekends I get like four text messages a day and none of them says I miss you or anything like she is all week long.
And I never get a phone call.. she says it’s because she’s with family and she doesn’t want them to know she’s seeing an older man because it’s so new… Now two weeks ago she was bowling with her mother out of town and the girl she was sharing a hotel room with come in when I was on the phone with her and said is that Christian?.. and I asked her who Christian was and she said it was her brother…
she has a really messed up family situation so I still don’t know all of her relatives. Fast forward to this week in the morning she’s showering and getting ready and a Snapchat from Christian shows up and next to his name is the heart just like the dating apps put on there when they add the name to your contact list.
She said he did that as a joke and added the heart that is. like am I overthinking s*** here I understand people don’t need to be calling each other all day but my thing is be f****** consistent like if you’re needy be needy all the time…
What should I do? does she have another man?
Here are what netizens think:
You need a nanny not a girlfriend
I think over relying on someone’s attention is unhealthy it should be a natural thing instead of counting the amount of text, something is wrong with you go see a doctor.
Siao ah, you go count. You go count today pee how many ml anot.