Ok this might seem silly but I’m conflicted on whether I was wrong here.
My husband (33) is a picky eater but I know what meals he likes and make sure to cook those. I had to give me a lot of good meals to be able to cook him his favorite things and make sure he doesn’t miss one diner.
However, lately he’s been complaining about the meals I cook that are his favourites. only because “he’s just not in the mood to eat this specific meal” so he would try to get me to cook something else right then and there. if I say no? he would go to bed hungry and without dinner…I feel bad so I just cook what he wants.
I got tired of it because it kept happening. Last night he came home and saw the different meals I cooked – he looked at them both and said he wasn’t “in the mood” to eat either of them and asked if I could cook him another meal. I was upset I said NO this is all I had on the menu. He made a face and acted sad and then was like “are you sure?….I would have to go to bed hungry…wouldn’t that make you feel sad?” I stayed in my chair and shrugged and said “as you like honey”. He got upset and told me I had no consideration for him nor do I care about his feelings and wether he go to bed hungry after working the whole day. I stayed quiet then he stormed away from me.
We didn’t speak til this morning where he said that my “as you like” attitude was hurtful amd dimissive and is now expecting an apology for it.