Husband was a boyfriend of 6 years before we got married for 5 years. I just had my motorcycle license when I first got together with my boyfriend.
He didn’t have the need to take one because he was against riding. We used to argue and take public transport instead of us riding because he kept insisting it isn’t safe. He felt anxious on the bike until years later when he got used to it. He then said it’s convenient to ride than taking public. He used to tell me not to split lane so I tried not to whenever he was my pillion.
When covid strikes and he was out of a job. He took riding lessons to work as a grab delivery rider. Now that he has his motorcycle license. His comments about my riding got worst. Telling me I am a reckless rider and he doesn’t feel safe whenever he was my pillion. Like excuse me? You rode with me for 8 years before you own one and never once you commented that and now I am reckless? My way of riding never changed.
I got upset with him. Like why would he say that? Why would I want to put his life in danger? Why would I want to put my life in danger? It doesn’t make sense. I told him I wouldn’t want him as my pillion anymore. He could ride his own bike and I will ride mine or whenever we are taking only one bike, I wouldn’t want to pillion him. He told me I got defensive and he doesn’t understand why. Now he is upset because I got upset at him being upset at me. (If you get the drift)
It is super annoying. He doesn’t have a driver’s licence but each time I drove, he will keep commenting “Why I don’t give way? Why must I drive fast? Can you please be careful.” I WANT TO FOCUS ON THE ROAD ALSO CANNOT LA!
I told him off. Now I told him, get your license. I am not driving anymore. You can drive all you want. He is upset with me and ignoring me now. AITA?