hi everyone, would like to seek opinions if is it normal for my boyfriend to reject my S advances?
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As every time when im at his place or he is at my place and my parent’s arent home and i try to ask him to do it with me, he rejects me and says he wants to wait till we’re married before doing it.
I’m his 1st girlfriend and his 27, and we’ve been together for 2 years already so I don’t know why is he so shy, is my boyfriend secretly gay? As i can’t think of any guy who would reject their girlfriend when their girlfriend is the one initiating it, and i did say whether he wants to use a rubber anot it is up to him, but he acts like a wuss and keeps rejecting me.
How do i get him to man up and do it?
Here are what netizens think:
- He is keeping his virginity for his one true love whom he is going to marry. Nothing wrong with it . Premarital S used to be the wrong thing to do until ppl normalised it and start thinking not having it, is abnormal.
- Does he have a religion that he adheres to closely? Or his family has very strong moral values? He’s a keeper. Respecting you and your body and yet you do not even appreciate it. Just because a guy doesn’t want to have S with you you think he’s gay?? That’s a very toxic mentality. There’s nothing abnormal with not wanting to have S before marriage and people who have this value shouldn’t be shamed into thinking there’s something wrong with them.
- Hmmmm, did you manage to check or visually see before that it is functioning tool.
- Don’t blame yourself for wondering what’s wrong with him. He could be a monk. See if you can break him. Be the dominant one!
- Your bf is a real keeper. He’s mature, and he doesn’t want the risk of having a baby outside marriage.