hey, so sorry if this is a silly question. but i said i’d ask on here because i don’t know where else.
i, (18F) have always been really wet down there. in the past, when getting frisky with my boyfriend, i would leave actual wet puddles on his bed while being fingered.
i would drench his leg while grinding on it before we f each other. and then during actual intercourse, it was so wet and we never needed lube or anything.
i don’t wanna go into details but we weren’t intimate for a good few months (we weren’t actually together back then, it was just casual drunk hook up.) now we are officially together, we live together, and i have become dry down there.
it’s not that he doesn’t turn me on? i love him, i find him so hot, and i want him to f me. but i just don’t get wet like i used to. i have to spit on my hand and rub it on him so that he can fit inside me.
how can i fix this? it’s really embarrassing for me, and i want a better experience for him (and myself) , because he’s commented in the past how he likes how wet i am.
does anyone have any advice? would be much appreciated.
Netizens’ comments
- Make a gyno appointment and see if anything has changed?
- Lube is such a great idea it makes it so much easier.
- There is nothing wrong with using some lube. Get a good water based one.
Maybe have a drink ?
I suggest he give you more foreplay to help you get more wet before PIV. - Are you on birth control when you weren’t before? Birth control completely took away my ability to get wet
- Easy solution. 69 before penetration so that both you and him are slimy and easy for him to go in.