That sounds bad I know but allow me to explain myself.
Im a 14 y.o girl and I will be turning 15 soon. Due to Covid, I missed out on a big previous party. As a result, my parents have agreed to give me a bigger 15th birthday and a sweet 16. I am very grateful for that and they know that.
I started planning my birthday party a few days ago since it will be a house party, meaning I have to cater food, get a cake and buy necessary supplies. I shared the guestlist with my parents(about 30 people) and they approved it.
They never mentioned that my sister wasn’t on there. My mom is big on letting us have our own space and hanging out with friends so she didn’t seem to have an issue with it.
My sister(12) came into my room while I was talking to my mom about my birthday and asked if she and her friend group (4? people) could come to my party. This is supposed to be a party as I’m going into 10th grade, and not to mention I’m never allowed to invite a friend or even go to her parties.
When she has slumber parties or even birthday parties, she instructs me to stand away, not talk to any of her friends, and “not embarrass her”. My mom saw my hesitancy and said “you can join us for cake, but I think your sister wants to have just her friends,”
My sister looked mad and asked me if that’s what I wanted. I told her that she can come for cake but I didn’t want her friends there, especially because I’m not allowed to talk to them.
I also said that it may be weird for secondary 1 kids to be hanging around a bunch of soon-to-be secondary 4 students, some of which aren’t very PG.
My sister got pissed, saying how I have to invite her. She’s calling me a bad sister for excluding her and not allowing her to invite her friends.