Happy ending massage but not giving consent for it to happen
I’m really confused don’t know what to do, my girlfriend (20) hates me. So I was highly intoxicated one afternoon and me and my mate went to get a massage from around the corner.
I stated to my friends that I did not want a happy ending or anything extra. We went in I paid full price for the massage and no extras.
I vaguely remember it happening and she told me to roll over and starting jerking me off, I didn’t know what to do I just froze and it ended.
I told my girlfriend as soon as she saw me. And now she broke up with me saying I cheated and now she hates me.
She said I could’ve said no or stopped it. I just froze and didn’t know what to do and I wasn’t in a conscious state mentally. What do I do? Do I give her time? I’m so confused. I need help
Tried talking to her and she just kept yelling at me nonstop, I tried explaining my point of view of what happened. She didn’t even listen to me once, I tried but I got yelled at.