So I(m23) met this girl(f19) online for the sole purpose of hooking up no strings attached. I went over to her house a day after we met online to do the deed.
When I met her I remembering thinking damn this girl is hot. We had a cigarette naked on the bed before the deed and we chatted. We ended up cuddling and talking for like 2 hours before she fell asleep in my arms. I slept too and i woke up at 6am to her begging me to do the deed with her. So we did it at 6am and we continued cuddling. I remembered her showing me that she sent her friend a text saying Omg he’s so hot.
At one point she was touching my face and saying I had nice features. So much for no strings attached, there’s a whole ass rope tied up right now. But not gonna lie I enjoyed the night a lot and we are planning to meet up again in a few days.
Is it wrong for me to develop a no strings attached into a relationship?
Here are what netizens think:
- My current relationship of 4 years started very similarly. Was supposed to be a hookup but now we can’t imagine life without each other. Good luck!! Hope this turns out as wonderfully for you as it did for me
- Many relationships start from hookups.My first relationship (first S) was a hookup and it was good, we started dating.2nd relationship started with a bad hookup (performance from my side) but we were talking comfortably before and after sex, we decide to hang out again and eventually started dating.
- My (now) wife of 12 years started as a rebound hookup after my (then) girlfriend of 7 years cheated on me and we broke up. Sometimes you catch feelings. Roll with it.
- Why is it somehow negative to catch feelings anyway? All my “hookup” friends were the most clingy people, desperate for validation and fear of rejection. It’s almost expected to be a hookup before considering a relationship. Maybe stop putting labels on things and just vibe with each other.