Okay disclaimer! we hooked up before my fiancé and I were together.
I did meet my fiancé through other reasons (we were fwb) and I was ready for a relationship with him from the start but he treated me like I was nothing but a f buddy where I was thinking of him as way more.
He (fiancé) met up with his ex gf and then he ghosted me before that fell through and we eventually got together (which is a whole other story).
Around then, his friend was all about me (I guess he always was?) He always tried to hang out with me, take me on dates, etc.
i always said no cause I was still in love with my now fiancé. I was drunk on my birthday and said he could come over and he did and we hooked up.
I didn’t talk to him much after cause i felt bad for sleeping with him when I didn’t have feelings when he obviously did
Now him and my fiancé have come back into contact after a few years and fiancé invited friend to stay with us cause he has no place else to live which im totally fine with and want to help.
My question is do I tell my fiancé we sept together or just act like it never happened?