A netizen shared how his “lazy gf” has a room that is as messy as a rubbish chute, and she says that she has no time to clean it but has time to watch Korean dramas and go out with her friends.
He wrote that they have been together for five year and are engaged, and that they have bought a new home but are renting the property out.
He said that financially, they have no issues, and that they will be moving into their property together after they get married.
However, he shared that her home has given him an insight into how she lives and how life will be like once they move into their new property together.
He said that her home is like a rubbish chute, and that she doesn’t do any house chores at home and leave it all to her mother.
Here is what he said
Lazy gf has a room as messy as rubbish chute
Hi there i hope to get some help here cause i am really out of ideas.
My gf and i have been together for 5 years. We are engage and gotten a house but is currently renting it out. We are planning to rom in a few months time. Currently both of us are busy with work. Our character fits each other perfectly and our career are going towards a very good direction. We have no issue financially and both our family members are all nice people to be with. There is just one big issue for me. My gf is very lazy, with the house chores, fitness and everything u can think of. She doesnt do any house chores and just leave it for her mother to do it. Her house is in a clean state but once u step into her room, its a complete mess, a mad house.
Some example of her room…
She has her blazer that she wore once and refuses to wash it or keep it into her cupboard. And it has been hanging behind her door for the past 1 year. She has her work clothing that she also pile up in her room where she doesnt know which is the fresh or dirty one. And the floor in her room is packed with old and new clothing(alot of it from taobao) which she refuses to pack or arrange nicely.
Lets not get into her make up and and other accessories lying around her room. Just by getting to her bed, i feel like a spider man manoeuvering around her room because her floor is filled with all the ‘trash’. And i actually did tried to pack it up for her a few times into the clean state but it wouldnt last for long before it return to its ‘original’ state again.
I got really tired and i decide to stop doing it because theres no end. It has been 9 month since my last clean up. Whenever i talk to her about this, she would say she is tired from work and will try to clean it up but i feel she is just trying to brush me off. I mean its 9 months and nothing is getting better. She has time to hang out with her friend or even watch korean drama.
I did try to clear out a path off all the mess on the floor for her just to access her bed easier and i told her to try and at least keep it that way. But even such a small task is not achieveable. At this point my main worry is that if we are gonna get married and move in together, i cannot imagine myself getting into such a state. I can try but i dont think i have time to pack it into the clean state with her trying her best to mess it up every single time.
I think even her mother have gave up trying or asking. I am not sure if she is just lazy or i am i asking too much. I feel if i were to keep packing for her, there is also a limit to it. And she is really hitting my limit right now. Most our quarrel circle around this issue. She knows she is in the wrong but she will always try to brush it off by saying she will try her best. But 9months and i am not seeing a slight improvement.
I really love her and at times i can just close one eye and ignore this issue. But just imagine the fact that i will be sleeping in a bed full of bs(clothing, bag, make up, personal accessories etc), giving me just a small area of space to lie, having to come home to a room that looks like rubbish chute, is really giving me nightmare and making me think twice about moving in together with her.
Honestly i need some really good help and advise. Thank you