Is it okay to be an enabler of other people cheating?
I met this girl one day during a dorm event and we hit it off pretty well. Went out for a drink at night when she told me that she’s in a LDR with another guy from China.
Due to their COVID protocols, they haven’t seen each other since 2020 and she’s feeling physically lonely. A lack of physical love, she said.
So anyways, we started drinking me and she inched closer and closer into my boundary and I guess you can infer what happens next.
We discussed for a little bit and agreed to be friends with benefits, purely friends with benefits. Did it around a dozen times since our first encounter 2 months ago.
My story doesn’t end there. By chance, I met another older woman through a dating app, and after hitting off for a few days, she revealed to me that she’s married with a son.
Similar to the girl before, she told me that she lacks physical love because her husband is cheating on her with another woman.
One thing leads to another and now I have another friend with benefits, both being females of non-single status.
I stand my ground that I did nothing wrong because all these time because I merely reacted to the situation instead of pushing it forward.
I did not flirt nor try to push these women towards the decision that they ultimately made, they were the ones who hit on me and engaged in their debaucherous acts. I merely obliged.