So I’ve (F/29) went for after-work drinks recently and most of us got very drunk. However, I was blackout drunk and I don’t even remember getting home or what happened later.
The whole night was a blur. I woke up in my bed with one of my colleagues (M/30) which I don’t even remember how he ended up at my place. Apparently, he ordered us a Grab, we got Grab food and headed to mine.
I don’t remember any of this. It was a bit of a shock in the morning as you can imagine.
He openly said that I was very drunk last night which makes me think why the hell he would get into bed with me? I’ve also checked my bank account in the morning and I’ve only paid for one drink the whole night so clearly, someone kept buying drinks despite seeing how bad of a state I was in.
I was confused and kept asking him not to tell anyone. I’ve also had to take a morning after pill. I’ve got a range of mixed emotions and don’t know what to do.
I don’t want this to come out at work but the whole situation is making me feel like I was taken advantage off.