Should I swallow my pride and court my ex-wife?
When we were still married about 5-7 years ago, I made the mistake of cheating on my ex wife. She found out, we tried for awhile but eventually she said she can no longer live with me.
We have children that she has care and control over, I have also remarried. We are amicable but over the years I see how she has bloomed, and really progressed in her career. My current wife pisses me off alot and I really regret that I neglected my ex-wife.
I know now that she used to be uninteresting because she let me focus on work and she had just given birth.
I feel like if I ask her to remarry me, she will tell me she has someone else. I dont know who she is dating but I feel it is worth it. Will swallowing my pride be enough? I know I will have to divorce my current wife but I want a complete family again. How shall I win her back?
Yes I know I am in the wrong.
Here are what netizens think:
- You’re the issue if she’s blooming when she’s with another guy with the children to take care of. If you still love her, please leave her alone with her current life. As for your children, they can decide who they want to be with once they are older.
- Anyway the problem is you. Notice how all the wife “became boring” when with him.. and they bloom without him. He’s the one dragging them down
- If u are thinking for yourself, why not? Nothing venture, nothing gained. But if u really loved your ex and children, think about whether your coming back will benefit them. Can all of them accept u and forgive u for the betrayal, mistrust, pain, sorrow and unhappiness u brought them before? Your presence will remind them constantly of wat u had done and opened up the wounds which had healed over the years. If it does not benefit them, but only u in any way, be a gentleman and moved on. Let them go, since they are happier without u.