Tired of having to tell men “No” at least 2-3 times before they stop trying to initiate S.
That’s it. If I’m not in the mood having you continue to try to put your hand in my underwear and kissing my neck is not going to make me change my mind.
The other day I hooked up with a guy and in the morning he wanted to have S again while I wanted nothing more than to keep sleeping, and he kept pushing me while I kept telling him I wasn’t feeling it. At one point I got so effing irritated I just got dressed and left his place.
And it’s, of course, not the first time it happens. I think every man I’ve slept with has done this at some point. And of course when I get mad about it they make me feel like I’m overreacting. I’m just so tired of this!! I’m never seeing this guy again and it’s become an absolute deal breaker for me.
If I tell you “No, I don’t want to have S right now” I should only have to tell you ONCE. I might change my mind later but you have to wait for me to do that! Stop effing pushing me!!!
Here are what netizens think:
- I was so used to men behaving like this until my boyfriend and I got together. I was absolutely shocked the first time I fell asleep on him and instead of waking up to him trying to get in my pants I woke up to him watching cartoons while petting my head. He had balanced and ash tray on my back though.
- My ex had a habit of trying to initiate S every 15 minutes when I wasn’t in the mood until I gave in, until I had to leave, or until he got so drunk that he was falling over. I broke up with him after I woke up to him jamming his fingers into my V.
- Been on too many first dates where me and the guy start kissing and he tries taking things further and I say “I dont want to right now but I’d still like to kiss if thats ok” or “can we wait?” or any other variation to kindly say I dont want S and they always act apologetic and pull back immediately and say “oh yeah no problem” yet 2 minutes later they try again.