Asking for my fiance, how to deal with narc peri-menopausal future MIL that will scold and preach not to do certain things then go do the exact same thing, and never ever apologise?
“I don’t want to say sorry!” – my mother, even when clearly she’s in the wrong, but still blames my partner for something totally ????.
(For context, she shouted at my partner for blocking her fan. Yes. Blocking her fan wind. I was shocked. I thought she thought she was shouting at me, but she knew it was him. And still shouted at him to move. Told her after she’s totally in the wrong for that, she says that he did that on purpose, either that or he is inconsiderate for blocking her fan accidentally/ unknowingly. Siao.)
Today she has said to me that she doesn’t like me (not the first time she’s told me this; I know long ago so I don’t care) and my partner (27M) too. Apparently he’s “changed” and last time used to like him now cannot stand him. Started to warn me about all men are the same, will change after marriage etc. (Projection much?), that she just trying to protect me etc. Lol.
BTO ready only years later, I can’t stay at their place because of…reasons. Only he can come and stay. Initial plan was rental, but too ex for us, then changed to once a week stay over even after ROM.
How ah?