I’m getting sick of dating women
I have no issue dating men or women but there is a distinct difference between dating cultures between the two and it’s really begun to strike a nerve.
If I was to go on a date with a man the dating experience is a lot like two bros who haven’t seen each other in a while and we talk about whatever, it feels like a genuine interaction.
If it doesn’t lead to anything that’s fine because even if we don’t end up sleeping or dating each other I’ve made a friend and I don’t feel like my time has been wasted.
Dating women I feel like I often have to fight for their attention just to even get to the stage of going out to meet them and often there is an expectation that I do all the work in organizing the date and paying for it, which I honestly don’t mind but the difference in expectation between genders is obvious.
The part that really Irks me though is after the date, we can get along perfectly, food was perfect, date was perfect and we kiss at the end only to then ignore my texts the next day.
I don’t expect expect anything from buying you dinner, hell you don’t even have to like me but please for the love of god just say so instead of acting like you do just to ignore me afterwards.
The worst case I had of this was with a girl I was seeing a while back and we had been out a good few times and we got along amazingly, we went to an event together one time and she acted really distant and on the way back I asked her if I had done something wrong, to which she tells me ‘no you’ve not done anything I’m just really tired’.
I get back home and she’s blocked me on everything If she was honest with me and told me how she feels I would’ve been upset but I would’ve been okay with it, this is just disrespectful.
I do feel bad for straight men if this is what they have to deal with when dating, so ladies I ask for them. If you don’t like a guy please just be honest with them