I [29M] found male underwear in my Girlfriends [27F] laundry
So, after bringing home our clothes from the laundry, I found a pair of men’s underwear in the clothes. They aren’t mine, as they are smaller than what I wear (a size down).
For clarity, we put our dirty clothes in separate piles, so the underwear came from hers. There was no one else in the laundry when I was there, so I couldn’t have brought them home.
At first she didn’t know who’s they were, but then claimed to be her brother in laws. She says that she must have accidently brought them home with her when she did laundry at her sisters house (she does this sometimes).
Okay, fine. However, when I tell her I would ask him/bring them to him (him and her sister live about 3 minutes away), she is vehemently against it.
Say I should just trust her and that its embarrassing for her to have her family involved. That makes me want to ask him even more.
We have been together for nearly 2 1/2 years. I know if I ask (whether it’s his or not) it’s going to be a pretty huge problem, one she claimed she We can’t come back from. However, I feel like this is the easiest to put this situation to rest.
What should I do? What would you do if this happened to you and your significant other?