My 28m wife 31f has started to make me uncomfortable.
A year ago my wife brought up the possibility of role-playing in the bedroom. We are very active in the bedroom. I was open to the idea and asked what she had in mind. She had a few ideas. Most of them involved fantasies that involved our job. I brought up others but they mainly get shut down.
We are both teachers. We work in the same building just on separate sides of campus.
It started with easy ones. Staying late for detention, better grade, principle and discipline, coach and athlete, etc It was fun at first.
But lately, she has started to act like her students. Attitude, dressing, and acting younger and younger. She does that when we get home. It is making me feel like a predator. She acts normal until we get home. It is like a flip has switched.
I have expressed concern and that I am uncomfortable with the way she acts. She gets better than 1/2 way through she switches back. I stop and she gets upset with me. I make an excuse for being tired or mentally drained. If I tell her I’m not into it anymore she makes me feel like I don’t love her anymore.
I don’t know how to tell her that I miss my wife. The grown-up, smart caring, and wonderful woman that I married. I can’t handle dealing with an adult child who makes me feel like a monster if I want to love my wife.
I have been making excuses lately on why I don’t want to engage with her anymore but I can’t take it. I want my wife back.
Also, I have never or will never engage with a student. Just to make that clear.