I (25F) don’t know what to do with husbands’ shady behaviour(26M). Please help me.
Is this alarming?
I found my husband’s secret Instagram he never told me about. There I found pictures of him in the club, and other photos(every day) etc but in every photo his hands are visible and he is not wearing a ring in any of these.
I am so confused and hurt. First, I don’t know that he goes out, second why the ring? He posted a photo from our one trip( I know cuz of the outfit) and he took it while I was getting ready in the bathroom and I knew he had a ring on.
Why did he take it off for a photo? That Instagram is full of ‘lifestyle photos’ as I call and he seems like a different person up there than the one I know at home.
I feel hurt and lied to. Some pics are even just in his boxers( he goes to the gym and kind of has gym photos also up there but still I feel very bad).
I am thinking about leaving him actually with no explanation because I feel like he always makes something up if I ask. I know he is gonna lie if I ask. What should I do? Please give me some advice. Should I tell him, ask him why?
Netizens’ comments
- I’d totally be like, “Honey, do you not like your wedding ring?” He’ll get confused and ask why.
“I found your instagram full of pics without it.”
Let this sit and watch the blood drain from his face. Enjoy that for a minute before he start gaslighting and lies. - He is most likely cheating or trying to cheat. I would check his phone and see if you can check his conversations from said instagram. It might be in a hidden folder/ secure folder. Also document everything. Talking to a lawyer is also good if you consider divorce.
- Sounds like a habitual cheater thing to do. Have an Instagram that you share with friends and family. Another to give out to other people that appears ‘single’.