My friend(who I love) told me that she wishes she could find a guy like me and I couldn’t be happier.
I made it clear early in our friendship that I had feelings for her, she couldn’t reciprocate but We still remained friends. Mind you I have still loved this girl since then.
with my actions I have truly tried to give her every ounce of love that I can to her. We stopped talking for a while but tonight she was struggling and I felt like she needed me to be there.
seven hours of her drinking and she told me that she was sorry that she will never love me, but she wishes that she could find a guy like me.
she said that she believed I would give her the world and that I could love her the way she needed to be loved and that I could treat her better than any man she had been with in the past.
She told me that every woman prays to god for a guy like me( I know it’s exaggeration but I laughed at this one) and that she really didn’t understand why she didn’t want me.
Of course I told her it’s ok, I am not entitled to anything because I help her, but She has been through so much and has been hurt so many times.
I know she was drunk but hearing her say all of that made me feel like all my efforts to show her love was worth it.
Netizens’ comments
- Bro don’t even dare I promise you it won’t end well. Be her friend if you want but don’t ever and I mean ever get into a relationship with her.
- If OP makes her feel this way, if he took 10% of that energy and put it into himself OR SOMEONE ELSE COUGH he’d probably change another woman’s life and find what hes not getting at the same time.
Who could, you know, reciprocate? And he’d not have to wait years to feel vindicated in investing all that love and energy into someone to be single and watch them date around and be hurt by it?
Idk man I love my friends, but he needs to let this go- it’s not healthy for either of you. You because of the aforementioned, and her because it’s not conducive to a stable relationship to have people who are THAT invested proximal to her relationships, on be leaning on you in the capacity she does if you WERE in a healthy relationship. (Or at least looking for one)
Like you sound like a great guy, and I’m sure you have changed her life for the better, but this is turning staler than a microwaved oatmeal cookie and it’s not beneficial in ways that satisfy either of you.
You won’t ever get what you’re looking for if you keep thinking she’s the only one who can give that to you.