Going to start school soon and I have to say goodbye to all those crazy things that happened over the Long holiday.
I almost slept with my customer after going out to drink with him after our meeting. Turns out that I was a better drinker than him and didn’t fall into his traps.
He kept pressurizing me to go out with him and I thought we were meant for each other. Then, he had a turn of a heart, saying that he’d ruin my life. I thought he was referring to the fact that he graduated from polytechnic so we are going to lead different life. And also maybe because he smokes and drinks on a habitual basis but I don’t.
Unfortunately, after taking some trouble, he finally told me that he’s actually engaged in a relationship with someone five years older than him. Thought that he lives with his parents but he’s actually living with his girlfriend. I am speechless. He said his girlfriend didn’t want to have S with him anymore so he’s looking for other people. He said we could be F buddies if I were to continue with him. I’m trying my best to peel away my feelings for him but it’s really really hard. What should I do? And is this even normal? Will he ruin me??? I’m confused and scared. I’ve never dated before and the first person I meet turns out to be like this…
Here are what netizens think:
- Essentially he,
1) tried to get you drunk for nonconsensual sex
2) threatened to ruin your life
3) has lifestyle differences with you with drinking and smoking
4) concealed a relationship from you
5) admitted he’s just after you for a fb, not a relationship
- Going by this, I would say you should go for it. You never know you might like it. On a serious note, down the barrel is hell so think twice before doing it.
- Please don’t. Go far far away from him. Block him. Don’t talk to him anymore. Just don’t