Toxic sister in law
Just seeking a place to rant it out. I am a semi deaf woman in my 30s ( deaf in one ear). I am an infant care assistant teacher working in a childcare centre.
I just got married last year and currently staying with my in laws as husband and I are trying to ballot for a HDB flat. We have failed to get the ballot twice.
Tonight I heard my sis in law mentioned about me to my husband after dinner. She told my husband: ” are you sure your wife is working as a teacher? She’s deaf you know? How can a deaf person teach? I don’t believe she’s working as a teacher, most possibly a cleaner at the centre. Cleaners are smelly and disgusting, that suits her better as she’s deaf. I think you married the wrong woman.”
I heard her, calmly I walked out of the bedroom and i told her this: You are a uni graduate from Australia, yet you don’t have the basic manners or humanity. Your parents ( my in laws) wasted their money grooming you. I hope that when you are old, you won’t need a job as a cleaner”.
My husband told her: ” please land yourself a job first before commenting on others. Who I marry is none of your concern as well”
My sil is currently not working and slacking at home.
Just a thought that I want to share. Just because one is a university graduate doesn’t mean he/she can make fun of people whom are handicapped, whom are not well off or working at simple jobs such as food delivery or cleaners.