My husband is Bi and cheated on me with a man.
First of all, I wanted to thank everyone on my last post for all the words and advice.
My husband recently told me he cheated and that it was just a bj. I can neither confirm nor deny that was the only thing that happened. It’s really hard to believe but it’s all I’m left with.
I found condoms and when I confronted him he said he used them for the BJ. I’m having a hard time believing him and he’s still sneaking aroun
Everyone is telling me to divorce him but it’s just seems easier said than done for me. I have one kid who I share custody from another relationship and we have a child of our own together.
Any advice on this would help. I don’t have much family. I grew up with my dad and had a very absent mother who has passed now and we grew up poor.
If I was to move in with my dad I’d feel like a burden because my dad only has a 2 bedroom apartment and has remarried and has three other kids living with them.
Space is a concern for me especially with two little ones. And my business has honestly been the one thing this year that has been holding me up and keeping me sane. I’m scared.
Netizens’ comments
- My husband also tried the “it was only a BJ” … I was able to get more information out of him though.. it definitely wasn’t just a BJ 🙁
- It’s challenging when you have children, there is no wrong answer, and stay or go is always your choice to make.
- Get a consult with an actual divorce lawyer to know what your actual reality would look like if you divorced him.
- Why do you have to leave the home? He’s the one who cheated.