How much making love is considered excessive for newlyweds?
I posted last week regarding being a virgin and getting married last Friday. I sought advice on what to do in terms of physical intimacy with my almost wife, who is now officially my newlywed wife.
I received a lot of great advice from everyone. Following the recommendations from many, we ended up making love and consummating our marriage on our wedding night.
Both of us lost our virginity, and since then, we have been f-ing every day, 2-3 times a day, for the past four days of our marriage.
Primarily, I have been in the dominant position, performing the missionary position and engaging in PIV intercourse.
However, just last night, she took the initiative and assumed the cowgirl position, riding me with enthusiasm.
Based on the information I have received and the literature I have read, it usually takes several weeks to even months for a newly married couple to become comfortable with each other intimately, especially in the case of an arranged marriage where both individuals are virgins.
So, is my experience a rare exception to the norm?
Netizens’ comments
- As long as you can both walk normally afterward and no one is fed up, you’re good to go.
- It is only excessive when: 1) there is a mismatch in interest and one person is pressuring the other person and causing unhappiness in the relationship, 2) you are hurting your obligations such as work or school so that you can F, or 3) you are f-ing so much that either of you are getting injured.
- No such thing as too much for newlyweds. It’s bonding you. Talk to her about everything in a very open way, she will tell you if it’s too much. She may surprise you and tell you something that will make it even better.
- There isn’t a number. Go until someone taps out!!