A girl found out that her boyfriend has been calling her ugly behind her back in text messages to his brother, as they judged her looks over her pictures.
Here is the story:
Found texts of my boyfriend telling his brother that im ugly but he is just following his heart by being with me…
I haven’t asked him about it but I did make some comments if he finds me attractive but he says otherwise to my face…
I obviously cried and was hurt by this text but I don’t know how to approach this with him or even if I should? I’m kinda aching inside and feel really sad it did hurt my feelings a lot.
So back story… he left his WhatsApp open on his computer and I happened to just come across the messages!!
I did not go through his phone but there was a pic of me sent to his brother and they were judging my looks and that’s how I found out. This was also back in December!!
& to clarify I am definitely not ugly and I can prove it with lots of selfies but I did confront him and he was a jerk about it and I’m moving on!
No one should treat anyone like this in a relationship and it’s unfortunate that this happened to me but I just have to move on.
Netizens’ comments
- You’ll most likely never be able to get over it or let it go. I think you’ll feel self conscious about what he thinks of you no matter what he says going forward. It’d be a hard one to get over.
- Dump him, follow your heart :3
- Dont date someone with an ugly personality
- Oh girlie, I’m so sorry. That was a very mean thing for him to say – it’s humiliating, even if he didnt say it to your face. If I were you, I don’t think I’d want to be with someone so mean. Best of luck to you