So last night my gf saw me without anything on for like the 1000th time, except this time she claims it was the first time I wasn’t hard.
I don’t really believe this to be true. But anyway, she ended up calling it a “tiny” “cute” and a “baby” D . I immediately felt embarrassed and ashamed, which I know I probably shouldn’t.
To make matters worse she is a nurse so she has seen a bunch of Ds from babies to old men. She also claims that she loves mine and it was just a misunderstanding and that she used the wrong words.
Now I don’t know what to think is true. I just feel like it’s all I’m going to be thinking about whenever we are getting intimate in the future and my confidence is now at an all time low, to the point of not even wanting to sleep with her anymore.
I just feel like body comments should be off limits because you will always hurt the other person with them. Any advice or thoughts on this situation?
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- I also have a grower. My girlfriend also things it’s cute when it’s small. She even came up with a name for it. She calls it fishy when it’s small and is fascinated by how small it is. I have an slightly over average sized D and I don’t care how small it can be when it’s not in action mode. Think of your D in the action mode and how she loves it in these situations. The rest of the time doesn’t matter to me.
- My husband is a grower and I always say “hey there little guy” in a baby voice and start playing with it. So soft and squishy
- I’m a grower and I find women are kinda fascinated by it growing and shrinking. Most likely she does not experience that very often in her medical capacity.
I would take offense to tiny and baby as well. Cute seems okay. But you’re entitled to your own agency here. Just say you feel emasculated by those words, and you’d prefer she uses more neutral language.
Be that as it may, I don’t think she was trying to humiliate you or anything. It’s a communication thing to work out.