My wife (25f) put chilli in my (30m) nose while I was sleeping
My wife and I have been together for 5 years, married for 3. Our son is three years old and she has another son who is 7. I love the older one as my own and am very close to the kids.
However, things have been taking a strange turn since we got married. She has been doing things that she thinks are “funny” but it’s been getting more and more dangerous every time.
It started with pinching me or “playfully” pushing me, but a few days ago, I was in the kitchen doing dishes and she came behind me and said started talking to me about my day.
I was talking to her and, while talking, I turned around and she took my baby son’s dirty poopy diaper and rubbed it on my face and starting laughing.
Not to be too gross but I could actually taste it. I tried to talk to her but she said I can’t handle her humor. Last night, I came home after 18 hour shift at the hospital, exhausted and lethargic and went straight to bed without eating anything.
She was also in bed so I gave her a kiss, and fell asleep. I suddenly woke up feeling my nose and brain were on fire, and she was holding a packet of chilli and laughing. I rushed to the bathroom and threw up.
I was in agony and never felt like this before. I felt that I was literally going to pass out from pain. I left the house and booked a hotel room, and I’m still here in the hotel room not knowing what to do.
I don’t want to leave my children with her but she is a completely different person around people, and will somehow make me the bad guy.
She loves our kids, but I don’t know if one day she will act towards them this way as well. What should I do? Should I just leave her and risk losing my kids as well?