A girl shared how she saw her boyfriend crying in private when she went to surprise him at his house.
here is the story
So it was his birthday and I wanted to surprise him so I went over to his apartment with my key. He was turning 26 and I’m 24.
I let myself in and went to the living room area and couldn’t see him. I peaked around the corner of the wall and I could see his door was open and he was on his knees crying.
At first, I thought he was laughing or praying but then I saw tears. I didn’t know what to do because he has never cried in front of me and it feels like I wasn’t supposed to see this.
It was full on loud crying. He was always close to his grandpa who passed away. He also has a picture of him on the mantle above where he was crying.
I snuck back out the door and left. He didn’t see me at all but I felt I was intruding. After I went to my car, he texted me and asked if I wanted to come over because he wanted to cuddle.
I obviously said yes and waited a couple of minutes then went back in. He was really sweet and I could tell he had been crying and I asked. He said he just got out of the shower and he was fine.
Why didn’t he tell me why he was crying? I know men think they can’t express there feelings but why can’t he with me. Is there a way to tell him what I saw or even should I.
Netizen’s comments
He didn’t tell you he was crying because he was having a private moment he didn’t want to share with you. Not every emotion has to be shared, not every expression of your partner’s inner life is yours. Respect his privacy. He’s allowed it.