I, am a widow, I lost my husband, to brain cancer in 2017. I’m currently with my boyfriend of 2 years. He used to have his own car but he crash it and got injured as well, I started driving him to places and for so many times, he commented on my husband’s car pendant that I hang on the rearview mirror. he called it “old” and “distracting” which annoyed me a lot. He suggested I replace it with more elegant mirror charm, but I refused and told him to respect that this is a setimental item that I want to keep.
I found out yesterday that he took it and threw it away, I had it with him and went off on him for nearly 30 minutes while he tried to explain he didn’t think it was pretty or useful and offered to get me something else, something more elegant and appealing. I loudly told him he overstepped and that from now on out he won’t be allowed into my car and I won’t be driving him anywhere. He said I can’t do that because he lost his car, he has an injury, he needs to be transported, and needs someone to drive him to his dr. appointments. I suggested his brother but he ranted about how I was overreacting and going to the extremes to punish him for just wanting to take part in decorating my car. I said it’s not his car, I don’t go around throwing his stuff out despite it being his car.
He huffed then asked me to let him cool off because I was stressing him out.
He’s whinning about my decision to ban him from my car and is saying I’m being cruel to him