A guy shared how he has been dating his girlfriend for 3 years and he wants to break up with her because she makes him miserable.
Here is the story
I have been with her for three years I only got with her because it “felt right” and now I’m so close to her family like they feel like my family and I hate the idea of breaking her heart the thought of it makes me wanna scream.
I’m so miserable she hates touching me.
To make matters worse I have been guilt tripped into moving In with her because she can’t afford her mortgage.
Well the other day I sat on “her sofa” and she got really mad and cleaned the whole thing. We don’t sleep in bed together because she “doesn’t like how early I get up”.
Every time I kiss her she backs up then barely kisses me. I hate my relationship and wish there was some magic way out of it, but don’t want to break her heart.
I honestly expected this to go the way of “what are you doing wrong?” Every time I bring up these exact things in this post up to her she acts like I’m being irrational and “soft” (she told me I was soft once at dinner).
I feel an incredible amount of relief hearing that I’m not crazy for being upset and heart broke by these things I’m scared of how my life will change and where I’ll move too (I left my apartment to move In with her and after fixing her car and paying most of the bills I’m low on cash) but I have to make a change.
I need to.