My husband pleasures himself with my teenage photos, what should I do?
I’m 25 years old, my husband is 27. We have been in relationship for 4 years and in marriage for 1 year. Overall we are happily married, both of us have ok career and my husband has been taking good care of me.
Around my late puberty years, when I was 14-15 years old, I was curious about myself, and also a bit naughty, so I took some inappropriate selfies. I never shared them with anyone, just kept them in an old thumb drive, together with other old photos. Overtime, I forgot about their existences.
Last week, I caught my husband pleasuring himself (he often does it when I don’t have the mood for S), and shockingly, using those photos of mine as materials. Apparently, he found those photos when cleaning up old thumb drives. I was furious, not just because of shame, but also because those are underage materials.
My husband’s defending arguments were that: 1. He didn’t cheat on me or fantasized about other girls, because those are photos of me. 2. The girl in the photo, at this very moment, is of legal age, and is his legal wife, so the thing he did was not morally wrong.
Though my husband has been trying to make-up with me, we still haven’t talked again since then. I still feel uncomfortable whenever I think about it. What should I do? Should I just delete those pictures and try to forget about this event? I don’t want to file for divorce, because I still love him, and he has been a really good husband to me.